The biggest problems I have at the moment is...
- Lack of monetary funds: I believe my current a/c says a balance of just £1.00! When one is poor; then, it can be extremely difficult to 'save' any money. Because, as soon as you've gone and saved £10.00; multiple bills come in saying you own £100.00+! Thus, you are 'forced' to withdraw all your savings in order to pay these bills; or, worse, you are 'tempted' to go and borrow loans...often at exorbitant interest rates...in order to help pay the bills; which leads to even more bills/and, further troubles way on down the line...whenever your credit limit runs out...and, you can't borrow anymore funds; then, will need to pay all of your creditors back, immediately.
- Lack of fitness: Especially, as I grow older -and, my physical health not being what it used to be- I seem to get lazier and lazier still...I'm not walking/running/stretching/or, otherwise, working out, regularly enough/-etc. I mainly 'think' about working out...just don't get up and do it for 'real'..
- Lack of self-discipline/focus: I suppose, that's all a part of the problems that goes along with having ADD/Attention Deficit Disorder. On the other hand, if the subject does interest me enough...and, there are many subjects which interest me: english/maths/science/computing/programming/martial arts/foreign language/-etc.; then, I am capable to keeping my attention fixed on that subject for a while; but, never for too very long. My attention just tends to wonder from one thing to a next...without fully learning or mastering anything. Then, I tend to forget stuff...; and, will have to go re-learn the same stuff I always went over before...this means I hardly ever make progress to the next step...and, mastery seems impossible to reach ever...as I keep on returning straight back to the beginning, endlessly, again and again.
- Lack of self-esteem/self-worth: Due to having had loads of 'negative' influences coming from purely 'negative' people: prejudice/jealousy/envy/evil malice/hatred/-etc.; therefore, I tend to feel really bad about myself; and, also, do fear rejection to the point of not wishing to interact with others at all...that is, not if I can possibly help it. You see, people with low self-esteem...tend to attract people who are , predators...who like a bunch of filthy hyenas...love to see/feed on the weak. Thus, you find yourself...being less and less willing to reach out to others. Even if you do find a good relationship; then, one tends to do something to destroy it...because you just don't know how to cope with when things are going 'good'; as you're so used to things being 'bad'.
- I'm not happy where I'm living; I'm not happy with the state of the house(it's crumbling...and, I don't have sufficient funds to fix it, properly)/nor do I feel entirely comfortable living amongst people in this neighbourhood. The feeling I constantly have is wishing to move away, and, just desperately wanting to 'escape'...!
- My elderly mum who I live with is just not listening to me...when I tell her take exercise...she just completely ignores me; and, it hurts me to see her deteriorate both 'mentally/physically'. I believe, we need to get some sort of outside help/support; but, would she agree to that...answer: no.
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