10 PM MADE PHONE CALLS INFORMING OTHERS ABOUT MY MUMS DEATH/UPCOING FUNERAL
Honestly, I was really dreading having to go make phone calls about such a horrible subject...; but, eventually, I realised I would have no other choice but to go and contact family/friends about my mum's death. So, I went and got the 'red' phonebook...which is used to store all of the phone numbers/addresses/-etc.
The first friends I contacted was the Blackwood family...who used to babysit me from when I was very young.
- I phoned the old Mrs. Blackwood -(now died)- phone number; but, although it was ringing...nobody answered; nor was there any answer machine to leave messages.
- I phoned Winnie...but, she wasn't home; so, I left a message on her answer machine. She phoned me back, later; and, we chatted for a while. Her suggestion is I should take in tenants to help pay the bills. I objected that I dislike having to live with strangers.
- I phoned Floyd...but, that phone number no longer worked.
- I phoned David...he answered me...; and, suggested if the rest of the family are likely to give you any problems; then, go and get some legal advice. (David also gave me Gary's mobile phone number to call.)
Next, I searched to find any other friends...
- I phoned Richard...Denis (died young/heart problems) wife answered. She said both Mr. & Mrs. Richard are not keeping too well; Mrs. Richard is managing relatively ok; but, Mr. Richard...now aged 97 is not so well...(deaf); also, he might be too infirm to attend any funeral. I left them my phone number details/and, also, name; so they can get it contact whenever they want.
- I phoned Sharon Smith...she answered the phone...thinking it was a social call; but, I went on to explain this call is to tell them about an upcoming funeral. She said I should leave the details on Facebook. I ended the call with give my regards to your mum/and, sister Judy.
- I phoned the Knight sisters; no answer on either number called(phone number too old, I guess).
- I phone Sylvie/Vie Williams/Mrs. Patterson/-etc. no answer (number too old)
Eventually, I reached the end of the phone book; and, frankly, was glad to...because, now, that's one task I don't have worry about too much longer.
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MY COUSIN, GARY, STILL DOESN'T SEEM TO BE WILLING TO MOVE HIS THINGS OUT OF MY MUM'S FLAT
What I do have to worry about is, Gary...who still has left his stuff inside of my mum's flat...it must be 7 bags full of clothes.../together with 2 or 3 suitcases; if he doesn't call me, soon...then, I will be 'forced' to go and call him; and, if he then decides not to go and collect his things...then, that will leave me with just 3 possible choices...
1. Leave his things there for the council to come and collect
2. Take his things to my home to store, instead/(I don't want to do that at all; as I don't want Gary to visit me at home).
3. Go and dump his stuff. Which I would never do...partly, due to family loyalty(yes, it's a really strange thing...even though we no longer talk....yet, I can't forget there used to be good times between us, too); ...and, partly because I believe if I did do that...he would shoot me!
Most unfortunately, you can choose who your friends are...; but, you can't choose who your family is!
The guy is dangerous, violent, and, extremely jealous -(I see him as a Narcissistic Psychopath...people like that love themselves; but, have absolute no respect for others)-; I don't believe he has any good intentions towards me...so, I fear what he might do, next...? Most certainly, I wouldn't put it past him.../or, his equally jealous and bad minded sister, Merlene...to get me bumped off...just so that they can get to inherit the house. For these same reasons, I'm going to make sure I write a Will which excludes them from inheriting either my goods/or, property.
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